Self Esteem
Self Esteem

The Offspring - Self Esteem Lyrics

This track delves into the complex dynamics of a toxic relationship. The protagonist continually accepts mistreatment from his partner, aware he's being used but unable to break free due to low self-esteem. He even rationalizes the suffering as proof of his… Read more

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Mar 22, 1994
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Self Esteem Lyrics

La, la, la-la-la
La, la, la-la-la

I wrote her off for the tenth time today
And practiced all the things I would say
But she came over, I lost my nerve
I took her back and made her dessert
Now I know I'm being used
That's okay, man, 'cause I like the abuse
I know she's playin' with me
That's okay 'cause I got no self esteem

Oh, hey, yeah, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah

We make plans to go out at night
I wait 'til two, then I turn out the light
This rejection's got me so low
If she keeps it up, I just might tell her so

Oh, hey, yeah, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah

When she's saying, oh, that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying, oh, that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well, I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care
Right? Yeah

Now I'll relate this little bit
It happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night, she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and looking to score
Now I know I should say no
But it's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb, but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

Oh, hey, yeah, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah

When she's saying, oh, that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying, oh, that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well, I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care
Right? Yeah

Writer(s): Bryan Keith Holland
Copyright(s): Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
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What is the Meaning of Self Esteem?

This track delves into the complex dynamics of a toxic relationship. The protagonist continually accepts mistreatment from his partner, aware he's being used but unable to break free due to low self-esteem. He even rationalizes the suffering as proof of his love, reflecting a distorted perception of what healthy affection should be. The song serves as a reminder that one should value oneself and not accept less than deserved in any relationship. It's a powerful commentary on how low self-worth can trap individuals in harmful situations, emphasizing the need for self-love and respect. #SelfEsteem #ToxicRelationships

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